In this short, powerful talk, you will learn how to work with your triggers to find insight into what’s underneath the surface. You will be invited to notice patterns that are holding you back and use your triggers as an access point for transformation.

Learn to use your triggers as access points for transformation by noticing patterns holding you back in this powerful TED talk.

Transforming Your Triggers

This session focuses on exactly HOW to stay in the moment when you're going through emotional difficulty. For example, the sudden end of a great work situation, divorce, or ending of a long-term relationship. This can pitch us into emotional turmoil for weeks and months. However, if we can learn to stay in the moment and not let the energy of our emotions affect our thought process then we can heal. In fact, we can heal across timelines when we learn to release the negativity in the NOW. Thank you for listening. Have a prosperous day. Renee

Learn to stay present during emotional difficulties, such as work or relationship endings, to heal and release negativity across timelines.

Stay In The Now When You're Triggered

Anxiety is a very real and scary feeling that not many of us are equipped to deal with properly. In this session, I will walk you through 5 ways in which you can reduce your anxiety. Be well!

Learn 5 effective methods to reduce anxiety and improve mental well-being in this session, providing valuable support for those struggling with this scary feeling.

5 Tips To Decrease Anxiety

This track explores how we can be our own worst critic and how we talk to ourselves through criticism can impact our outcomes in life. Listening to our self-talk and being kind to ourselves is an essential step on the road to creating the right mental environment to flourish.

Self-talk and self-criticism can greatly influence our outcomes, emphasizing the importance of being kind to ourselves for personal growth and success.

Be Kind To Yourself

Move from how you feel right now to how you want to think with a tiny action step every day. So often don't realize how much time has passed or how we got here because we are out of touch with our sensations, emotions, and feelings. Drop into those to shift your state and create a tangible, actionable step to stay in your new state.

Shift your state by taking tiny daily action steps from your current feelings to your desired thoughts through connecting with emotions and sensations.

How Do You Want To Feel?

Asking yourself the right question will transform your life and your manifestations!

The right question can transform your life and manifestations.

Getting To The Core!

Some days it seems like your life is so hard, while others' lives seem easy or effortless. How did you manage to board the struggle bus, while they zip by on the bullet train? Find out if you have one (or more) of these five habits that could be making your life a daily uphill climb.

Identify 5 habits that make life harder than it needs to be, and learn how to avoid them in order to stop struggling.

Why Is Your Life So Hard?

Most of us are challenged by difficult emotions; either pushing them down or acting out of them. This talk gives a way of working with difficult emotions that comes from observing how cows and buffalo approach storms.

Learn how to work with difficult emotions by observing how cows and buffalo approach storms in this talk.

Dealing with Difficult Emotions

This one is for people pleasers. A reminder to say what you need to say. In a world where “likes” are a barometer for whether or not we are showing up in an acceptable way, we try to please, attract and impress as many people as we can, and then live in fear that someone won’t approve or respond in the way we had hoped or expected them to. We’ve gotten so good at dividing ourselves into smaller and smaller pieces, that we end up stretched thin, pleasing no one, with an empty tank. Life is way too short to try and please everyone.

Stop people pleasing and say what you need to say; life is too short to try and please everyone in a world where likes determine acceptability.

Say No To People Pleasing & Yes To You!

RAIN - an effective mindfulness strategy for dealing with difficult emotions.

RAIN - effective mindfulness for dealing with difficult emotions.

R-A-I-N

Emotions come and go like changing weather patterns. But sometimes we hold onto negative emotions so long that we can get lost in them, finding it hard to let them go. Learning that we have a choice as to how long we hold on to them can be liberating.

We have a choice in how long we hold onto negative emotions, which can be liberating.

Holding The Stone

When you notice and become aware that you are frustrated, angry, or on a negative thought train. What do you choose? Do you let it take over or can you take charge and make an empowered decision?

Take charge of negative emotions; make empowered decisions to avoid being taken over by anger or frustration.

Options to Deal With Negative Thoughts

Defensiveness comes from tightening around hurt and pain. As you soften around pain and release defensiveness, your life will become greater, more abundant, and joyful. Think of pain as moving energy; when you are emotionally hurt, breathe into your heart, soften around your pain, and release your pain and hurt with each exhalation.

Softening around pain and releasing defensiveness can lead to a greater, more abundant, and joyful life; breathe into your heart and release pain with each exhale.

Done With Defensiveness

We all have the innate ability to manifest our desires. Just like many other things in this life, the world has disabled us from being able to tap into our inner knowing, our inner ability to bring to life the desires of our hearts. We are all given desires for special reasons, and it is so important to tap into those desires and encode the messages that they are sending us. Let's learn together how to reconnect with that sparkle that is within all of us so that we can create the life that we dream of. -Tori Kay

Unlock your innate ability to manifest desires by tapping into your inner knowing and encoding messages from your heart to create the life you dream of - Tori Kay

Manifest Your Desires | Innate Knowing

As we move along the Path of Freedom, we inevitably fall short of our expectations as to who we "should" be, what we "should" know, and what we "should" be able to do. Each and every time, we are offered the opportunity to, rather than beat ourselves up, get up and love ourselves up. In other words, we get to practice self-love and self-compassion in a beautiful way. I invite you to join me as we explore why it does not serve us to judge ourselves and how we can love ourselves unconditionally.

We should practice self-love and self-compassion instead of judging ourselves when we fall short of our expectations on the Path of Freedom.

When We Fall - We Love Ourselves Up

A limiting belief is just that. A belief that you once had that no longer serves you and is currently limiting your potential. They aren’t by nature evil or nefarious. They are hardwired to keep you safe. But even with the best of intentions if gone unchecked, they can take us down.

Limiting beliefs hold you back by keeping you safe, but can harm you if unchecked.

Releasing Your Limiting Beliefs

We all have the self-critical voice that gets in the way of progress. We can choose to listen to it in more open-minded ways, even communicate with it in order to help understand its thinking. We can even discover what it is it really needs and help to make that happen. Learn how to befriend it so that it can integrate back into yourself and act in more positive ways.

Befriend your self-critical voice to understand its thinking and meet its needs, integrating it back into yourself for more positive action.

Dealing With The Self Critic

An inspiring talk that teaches one of the most helpful relationship skills you can build. You will learn how how to navigate emotional turbulence with your partner by being present and listening without judgment.

Learn to navigate emotional turbulence in relationships through present and non-judgmental listening, in this inspiring talk on building relationship skills.

A Helpful Relationship Skill To Build

Does complaining reflect a deeper unhappiness with yourself? Complaining can serve a useful purpose, but when you chronically complain you are likely not taking responsibility for your thoughts, feelings, and behavior. You also become the creator of high stress and feelings of overwhelm. Find out what your complaining actually means and what you should do instead.

Chronic complaining reflects an unhappiness with oneself, leading to stress and overwhelm, and suggests a need to take responsibility for thoughts, feelings, and behavior.

Complaining: Sign Of Deeper Unhappiness?

This is a short, gentle talk on "Acceptance". Many times we make our lives more difficult because we don't accept "What is". This creates tension internally, as well as, externally. This attitude blocks our creativity and understanding of what life is telling us. This talk offers suggestions on how to deal with difficult situations and how you can discover better solutions by accepting "What is".

"Acceptance" talk emphasizes on embracing "What is" to find better solutions, instead of making life difficult with tension and blocked creativity.

Your 3 Minute Morning - Acceptance

A short inspirational talk to help you release your hold on how things should be and learn the sacred art of surrendering to life's divine unfolding. Lou shares his journey letting go of his plans so that he can learn what life wanted to teach him. Photo by Adriel Kloppenburg on Unsplash

Lou shares how surrendering to life's divine unfolding can help release your hold on how things should be in his inspirational talk.

Learning How to Surrender

Linking breath and gentle movement to get out of a chronic freeze response is a powerful and natural way to shift feelings of anxiety and overwhelm.

Breath and gentle movement can help overcome chronic freeze response, easing anxiety and overwhelm.

Breath & Movement To Ease Anxiety

Even though it is very normal for us humans to resist that which is, resistance does not serve us in any way. In fact, at the metaphysical level, resistance only serves to magnify and amplify the very thing we are resisting. Not to mention that it makes us feel bad. If we instead can embrace and allow that which is to be as it is, without judging it or giving it names or labels, we are calling forth only peace, joy, harmony, and wholeness. It is all up to us to choose what we desire to call forth.

Resistance only serves to amplify what we resist; embracing and allowing things to be as they are brings peace, joy, harmony, and wholeness.

Embrace And Allow That Which Is To Be

This is a short track with some thoughts to consider when you suddenly feel stressed. When a rush of frustration and tension surfaces inside you, I offer a few suggestions to help alleviate the negativity. This is a quick, but potent life force energy coaching tip to help expand your consciousness. The thoughts are spaced out to allow for your consideration and integration. I hope you find this helpful and always look forward to your feedback. And remember; Energy is Everything.

Quick tips to alleviate stress and expand consciousness - a potent life force energy coaching tip. Remember, energy is everything.

3 Minute Morning - Let Go Of Tension

Becoming more self-aware of how our minds work - being more mindfully present with our thoughts and emotions - can dampen the stress response and help us stay out of feelings of overwhelm.

Increased self-awareness through mindfulness can reduce stress response and prevent overwhelming emotions.

Managing Overwhelm

In this 3 Minute Morning, I talk about how sometimes we invite in the wrong types of thoughts and feelings while we are trying to raise our consciousness. I equate it to allowing a homeless person to run amok inside your mind while you are trying to build a penthouse of consciousness. Have a listen and tell me what you think. Have a wonderful and prosperous day. Your Life Force Energy Coach Renee

Inviting negative thoughts & feelings hinders raising consciousness; think positive thoughts to build a penthouse of consciousness.

Your Penthouse Of Consciousness

This three-step exercise is a beneficial approach to reducing stress or any challenging emotions. It can be used as a formal practice at your own pace and turned into an informal practice. It is also easily used during daily activities when you need to reset your stress level.

Three-step exercise to reduce stress: formal or informal practice, easily used during daily tasks to reset stress level.

Stop To Reset Stress And Anxiety

Your inner critic thrives on fear and creating feelings of inadequacy and doubt to keep you safe. from embarrassment, failure, or trying new things. This track will teach you how to rescript the dialogue of your inner critic with messages that will help you instead of holding you back. To find out more about what I do visit www.wideopenstages.com

Learn to silence your inner critic by rescripting its dialogue with positive messages to overcome fear and self-doubt. Visit www.wideopenstages.com.

How To Rescript Your Inner Critic

Are you tired of one-size-fits-all life hacks that just don't work? This track explores the beauty of personal evolution through diverse life experiences and reminds us there's no magic elixir for life, just the beauty of your unique journey.

This track emphasizes personal growth through diverse experiences, highlighting that there is no universal solution for life's challenges.

When Life Hacks Don't Work

Feeling like nobody truly understands you? Discover how to embrace your uniqueness and find a deeper sense of self-love and acceptance.

Embrace your uniqueness to find self-love and acceptance when feeling misunderstood.

If You Feel Like People Don't Get You

In this 3-minute Morning Life Force Energy Coaching Session, I discuss the differences between having a purpose and having a mission and why that's important to understand. Thank you for listening and have a prosperous day.

The text discusses the distinction between purpose and mission and emphasizes the significance of comprehending this difference for personal growth.

3 Min. Morning - Purpose Vs. A Mission

This practice and explanation will help you to gain control of your thoughts, understand why it's important to face them, rather than just distracting yourself. Practice this easy tool whenever you feel overwhelmed by racing thoughts or feel anxious from your daily to-dos list. Pair it with a guided meditation from Lilla for the full relaxation effect.

Gain control of your thoughts with this easy tool, face them rather than distract yourself to reduce anxiety and pair it with Lilla's meditation for full relaxation.

Gain Control Of Anxious Thoughts

When we notice what is holding us back, we can remove those things from our life. We often neglect long-term gratification and prioritize short-term satisfaction. In this session, I talk about the benefits of being brave in modern-day society and how your courage to be your true self will liberate you.

Learn to remove what is holding you back and prioritize long-term gratification. Be brave and liberate yourself by being true to who you are.

Free Yourself Now

Amor Fati is a Latin phrase that the stoics have used for centuries. When you begin using this term like a mantra it will move you from being a victim to a hero in this journey called your life! Cheers~

Use the Stoic mantra "Amor Fati" to transform from a victim to a hero in life's journey.

Amor Fati!! Enjoy Your Life!

As we move along the Path to Freedom, while we sometimes feel as though we are alone and that so much rests upon our shoulders to deal with... we are wise to always remember that while we may be alone in the human dimension of life, we are never alone from a spiritual perspective. As God is all there is, which means that we eternally are standing in absolute oneness with Spirit - no matter what we are facing, we can always lean into God to carry us. I invite you to join me as we explore this.

We are never alone from a spiritual perspective on the Path to Freedom, as we stand in absolute oneness with Spirit and can always lean into God for support.

We Are Never Alone

Deep inside your heart, lives a beautiful child that you once were. If you seek joy, self-esteem, and self-acceptance, take these few moments, and reunite with this child that graces your life.

Reconnect with your inner child for joy, self-esteem, and self-acceptance.

Your Beautiful Child

In this mini-coaching session, I talk a little about competition and why it's a good idea to compete with yourself and not the neighbors. Thank you for listening. I wish you a prosperous day, Renee

The text discusses the importance of competing with oneself rather than comparing to others, emphasizing personal growth and well-wishes.

Your 3 Minute Morning - Competition

Have you ever given away your power? Do you put others' needs and wants as a priority and in front of or in place of your own because you rationalize this decision as something that will make a situation better, make someone love you, or love you more consistently, out of what guilt or sadness you feel? The path of healing begins when you reclaim your power. When you sacrifice your needs and happiness for others, you are removing the power that you hold for making yourself happy. Download the PDF here with the formula to stop self-sabotage. https://www.dorothyratusny.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/04/The-Formula-For-Freedom-From-Self-Sacrifice-And-Self-Sabotage-Wisdom-Notes-04.03.22.pdf

Reclaim your power by prioritizing your own happiness instead of sacrificing it for others, with the help of a formula to stop self-sabotage.

The Dangers of Self-Sacrifice (clip)

When you have clear and present boundaries that you live by, it makes it easier to navigate your life. It allows you the autonomy to always choose based on your needs and highest values and others appreciate and respect that you know yourself well and are consistent in your words and actions. The definition of a boundary is something that indicates or fixes a limit or extent. In this episode, I share one client’s journey to repair the damage of not having healthy boundaries in place with the solution of building those boundaries – now. If after listening, you would like my help to set new and clear boundaries in your life, please reach out to me. Sending you great love... Namaste!

Establishing clear boundaries in life enables autonomy in decision making and earns respect from others; one client's journey to building boundaries is shared.

What Are My Boundaries? (Sample)

The definition of self-sacrifice is not holding a belief in yourself, rather allowing others to direct your life, and needing false approval and permission from others rather than following through on your own ideas and what matters most to you and standing tall and in the full authority of knowing that you are more than good enough, accomplished, and successful as you are. Here I share the formula to no longer sacrifice you and what matters most. If you enjoyed this sample track, please listen to the full version, right here! Sending you great love... Namaste! Dorothy

Self-sacrifice is relinquishing control and seeking validation from others, rather than standing confident in your own ideas and abilities.

The Dangers Of Self-Sacrifice (Sample)

In this 3 Minute Morning Coaching Session I describe the link between being tired and stressed and saying something condescending to someone. It's easy to do and helps us try to get "one up" from feeling low. We discuss why this happens, what to do about it, and some techniques to prevent it. Thank you for listening. Have a very prosperous day. Renee

This coaching session explores the connection between fatigue, stress, and condescending behavior, offering strategies to prevent it.

Link Between Stress & Condescension

Although it is very normal for us humans to complain and bemoan about as well as resist that which is, from a metaphysical perspective, none of these serve us. As the sacred laws can only reflect back to us our predominant vibration, the only thing complaining and resisting serves is to magnify and amplify the very thing we are complaining about. And so the way to move beyond and out of any unwanted condition is to turn our attention away from what we don't want to what we do want.

Complaining and resisting only magnify unwanted conditions; focus on what you do want to move beyond them, according to sacred laws.

Why Complaining Never Serves Us

This brief session offers a glimpse into the profound gift of forgiveness. My hope is that it serves as a gentle reminder that forgiveness is not only an act of strength but also an act of self-kindness and a doorway to freedom, allowing you to live more authentically and fully.

Forgiveness is a powerful act of self-kindness and freedom that allows one to live authentically and fully.

Practicing Forgiveness (It's For You)

This session offers a glimpse into the profound gift of forgiveness, along with some brief examples of things you could say to yourself to support you in this practice. My hope is that it serves as a gentle reminder that forgiveness is not only an act of strength but also an act of self-kindness and a doorway to freedom, allowing you to live more authentically and fully.

Forgiveness is a powerful gift that brings self-kindness, freedom, and authenticity, as explored through examples and encouragement in this session.

Practicing Forgiveness: (With Examples)

One of the most transformational things I learned to do was to change my perspective on the situations in my life. Use these 4 questions to help re-frame any situation and take yourself out of victim mode and into feeling confident and calm. Learn more about Tina and grab some free resources by heading over here>> https://www.tinastinson.com

Change your perspective on situations with 4 questions to shift from victim mode to confident and calm; find free resources at tinastinson.com.

Re-Frame Any Situation With 4 Questions

The art and practice of Embracing and allowing that which is to be as it is, is one of the most fundamental practices we can engage in to allow for the peace, the harmony, and wholeness to emerge from within us, as well as vibrationally align ourselves with the good that we desire. Learning to embrace and allow means to release and let go of attachments, opinions, and stories about what should and should not be. I invite you to join me as we move deep into exploring this beautiful practice.

Embrace and allow things to be as they are, let go of attachments and opinions, to find peace and harmony and align with desired outcomes.

The Art and Practice of Embrace & Allow

What I call a spiritual need is a need that allows us to sustain our vibration, raise our vibration, and expand our consciousness. It is that which allows us to be in peace, joy, love, and harmony regardless of what is going on around us. When we tend to these needs, our lives flow beautifully, and when we don't, our lives become a matter of effort, struggle, and suffering. I invite you to join me as we explore what a spiritual need is and how to tend to it.

Tend to your spiritual needs to raise your vibration and expand your consciousness, allowing for peace, joy, love, and harmony even in difficult times.

Tending To Our Spiritual Needs

If you started your day off on the wrong foot, staying grateful can seem challenging. Try this gratitude snowball practice to switch your energy from frustration to appreciation in 2-3 minutes.

Switch negative energy to appreciation with a 2-3 minute gratitude snowball practice, even when starting the day off on the wrong foot.

Gratitude Snowball

Difficult people – most of us have at least a few in our lives. These two secrets will help you to get along with them much better than you’d expect.

Learn two secrets to get along better with difficult people in your life.

How to Get Along with Difficult People

If you have been wanting to fix something about how you have been living your life, please listen on. This episode is to help you get unstuck, eliminate old habits, and to help you become inspired to build the new success habits that you have wanted. These simple life hacks are the best practices for how to change. This is your road map back to yourself. It's time. If you would like my help to break free please reach out to me. p.s. You can find the full-length episode of this track here in Life Coaching WISDOM. Sending you great love... namaste Dorothy

Get unstuck, eliminate old habits & build new success habits with simple life hacks that serve as your roadmap back to yourself in this episode.

Deal with Anger: Life Coaching