What Is Normal Sex? Why I Won't Say

Almost everyone wants to know what sex is like for other people. Or to put it another way, what is sexually "normal?" How often, how many minutes, how many orgasms, how many inches, how many partners, where, when, how? I’ve spent decades NOT answering the “normal” question—when asked by patients, the media, my readers, listeners, and audiences. Why? Because people use the information to undermine themselves: “I’m not OK,” "You're not OK," or “We’re not OK.” But I know you want it, so here are 3 facts about "normal sex" that will surprise you--or make you laugh.